tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-67862550278989024782024-02-07T09:17:32.745+00:00Carrots and KidsHow a mother of five saved her sanity - one seed at a time.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.comBlogger98125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-59530181218113237582009-02-27T07:18:00.000+00:002009-02-27T07:18:49.870+00:00Carrots and Kids is Fixed!!!!!Oh. My.<br />
That was tricky.<br />
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Come and meet me <span style="font-size: x-large;"> </span><a href="http://www.carrotsandkids.com/"><span style="color: red; font-size: x-large;">HERE.</span></a> Please. It's all fixed.<br />
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I'm now blogging at www.carrotsandkids.com. And let's just gloss over how horrendous that all was (so horrendous I was on the verge of giving up my blog). Note it's .com and <i>not</i> .co.uk (yeah, gloss, gloss, gloss).<br />
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I'll pour you a cup of coffee from my flask, cut you a slice of banana cake and we'll swap plans, moan about growing carrots, talk about the joy of gardening alongside our children and on our own and admire each other's plots all the while leaning on our spades......Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-1779894005853008092009-02-03T10:19:00.017+00:002009-02-03T11:46:46.455+00:00The Good Thing About Snow......<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoZPvXw2zW8HYy9vD5baIZCmXZowo0ASbacSYSNyVyiQWLgnMYHMP-JoFtEzkhd7Fv-kDUaP7syjzvLkWcjCbTzfBialZbtv1XA3Z5CcXMfjFvlpbdXclyl43qJMWywm7po14rLvHLZqqM/s1600-h/IMG_1379.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoZPvXw2zW8HYy9vD5baIZCmXZowo0ASbacSYSNyVyiQWLgnMYHMP-JoFtEzkhd7Fv-kDUaP7syjzvLkWcjCbTzfBialZbtv1XA3Z5CcXMfjFvlpbdXclyl43qJMWywm7po14rLvHLZqqM/s400/IMG_1379.JPG" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-style: italic;">The hated front garden. I do feel brave, showing you this!<br />
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There are many benefits to the snow. Mostly, it has to be said, if you are a child. I can honestly say it doesn't hold that much appeal for me. I try. We went for a snowy walk, the children made a snowman and a couple engaged in a snowball fight involving lots of children.<br />
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One thing I am grateful to the snow for is how it hides all my garden's imperfections. Which means, it covers it completely because we all know my garden has many faults (all of them laid squarely at my door).<br />
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So I'm enjoying the look of my patch while I can. I'm wearing my snow goggles. Then the thaw will start and it'll be back to reality....Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-83530208153559458292009-02-01T22:15:00.004+00:002009-02-01T22:34:30.419+00:00Gardening and Other PlansAlthough it may not seem like it, I do have plans. Kind of. Oh, ok then, things I would quite like to do if I don't get sidetracked doing other things or if I can actually work out how to bring these things to fruition.<br /><br />Many of my gardening plans involve spending money. Now there's a surprise! I'd rather they didn't, obviously, because that means they will all stay in my head instead of becoming a lovely reality.<br /><br />However, the bones of our garden need shaking up a bit. Take the front garden. I dislike it intently. Every time I walk up the path I think <span style="font-style: italic;">"I hate this front garden"</span> and, this may sound loopy, even if I don't articulate the thought it is still THERE. The feeling is as much part of me as....say, my eyelashes. I don't need to say to myself <span style="font-style: italic;">"I have eyelashes" </span>to know that there they are.<br /><br />So. It is becoming is quite stressful. I hate the wibbly hedge, the fact that we have no gate (it rotted and has never been replaced) and that it is a dumping ground for ladders and deliveries for Hubby's work.<br /><br />I also intensly dislike the layout - path, grass and two boring borders under the windows. Yeah, I'm not proud of it.<br /><br />Other gardening related ideas include deciding once and for all about moving this blog, posting more often and saving up for a macro lens, costing out the front garden's redesign and, gulp, save up for it.<br /><br />Oh yes, and find a money tree to plant in the back garden.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-76678527051082021202009-01-15T22:03:00.000+00:002009-01-15T23:08:44.879+00:00Dear Blog.....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaR-_gKo0-KmLCeEXU7rSzT-l_zbdHOp5l4uAyxu-gAJn9MZjf-gTcWZFTWunQMSzvII1eBJo5lgheEdO7Ir4N4Rq6smBiXmdVtVEvmeTQQsf1vprGWU8yhkwsXRYJwAa-Q19Gv53zCgaz/s1600-h/IMG_1074.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhaR-_gKo0-KmLCeEXU7rSzT-l_zbdHOp5l4uAyxu-gAJn9MZjf-gTcWZFTWunQMSzvII1eBJo5lgheEdO7Ir4N4Rq6smBiXmdVtVEvmeTQQsf1vprGWU8yhkwsXRYJwAa-Q19Gv53zCgaz/s400/IMG_1074.JPG" /></a></div><br />
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Don't worry, this isn't a Dear John letter. It's more of a grovel, sorry-I-neglected-you type of note. Really, I am very sorry.<br />
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My head was turned by<a href="http://knickerbockerglory.typepad.com/beingordinary"> another. </a>Plus, let's face it, it's been cold and dark and not really gardening weather. I know others have managed to lavish love and attention on their blogs but........what can I say? I'm a rubbish blog owner.<br />
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Still, I'm feeling the stirrings of spring. Yes, seriously. It could be just wishful thinking but really, we know She's on her way. First I spotted some daffodil plants sleepily poking their head up through the ground. And then I noticed it's getting darker, later.<br />
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I have big plans for the garden and allotment. Yeah, I know we've heard it all before. I wish I could say I had big plans for you, dear ole blog but as usual I shall just bumble along. I may do a bit of tweaking here and there.<br />
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So - here's to you and me and all the other sowers and growers and plant-heads and to spring. <br />
We have much to look forward to.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-84504227029209583032008-11-26T15:13:00.000+00:002008-11-26T15:13:01.557+00:00I Think I know The Problem<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0Eplq3Wm_GG2O1ckDPPc2saN3Wdr1DvB4rtO40rg-wczClMdZ4p4U5dSFNzDvqQrt44hkpqrdFYObJy2wRCLyHg6uf67IPze31C5co_v2PiAg7tcubkwF53sbaTZn-Aobjle6u4XZKSzJ/s1600-h/IMG_7137+%282%29.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj0Eplq3Wm_GG2O1ckDPPc2saN3Wdr1DvB4rtO40rg-wczClMdZ4p4U5dSFNzDvqQrt44hkpqrdFYObJy2wRCLyHg6uf67IPze31C5co_v2PiAg7tcubkwF53sbaTZn-Aobjle6u4XZKSzJ/s400/IMG_7137+%282%29.jpg" /></a></div><br />
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Something's been vexing me a bit lately and that is the question of how I'm able to do all the things you're supposed to do at the correct time at the gardening club but am totally unable to do this at the allotment.<br />
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I've been wracking my brains to fnd out what the magic ingredient is at the club and so far have only come up with the fact that I'd be letting people down if I was as flaky at school as I am at the allotment.<br />
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So, could it be the <b>weather? </b>No, as far as I can tell the climate is not balmy at school. It is just as wet and cold there as here. Perhaps it just feels warmer, being surrounded by children chattering and other adults rather than the sound of silence, pheasants and my own thoughts.<br />
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Perhaps it's the <b>inconvenience?</b> Nope (again). I have to get in the car to go to both places. And lug stuff. And climb slippery steps.<br />
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Could it be the <b>time</b> factor as it's sometimes easier to get things done when you only have a small window of time to do them in? For me, it concentrates the mind and I'm better with a deadline. Hmmm, I don't think so, I don't have hours and hours to while away at the allotment. It is not a parrallel universe there where time stands still. I have as little time to spare there as I have everywhere.<br />
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GOT IT! I think I have the answer.......but I need to do some "research" first. No good knowing what the problem is if I don't know how to fix it....Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-17335211945653074982008-11-24T14:12:00.000+00:002008-11-24T15:12:09.758+00:00Winter Gardening Club<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdey9rei4xoo_L8OEbzTyvB_6VI1ZL9EwCFx-vhyphenhyphen2y3yzWFx48qXVpyjYPDRA-lVtPs37Lm6WFjXpyRCN1fmROv8BRvpvuh9ZlR4Kz3K54bVBUCh-uzX-R9Kz9PzP1JriAcEO_F7_NVgqZ/s1600-h/IMG_9118.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdey9rei4xoo_L8OEbzTyvB_6VI1ZL9EwCFx-vhyphenhyphen2y3yzWFx48qXVpyjYPDRA-lVtPs37Lm6WFjXpyRCN1fmROv8BRvpvuh9ZlR4Kz3K54bVBUCh-uzX-R9Kz9PzP1JriAcEO_F7_NVgqZ/s400/IMG_9118.JPG" /></a></div><br />
It's mighty chilly out there but my merry band of green-fingered imps rose to the challenge of coming to today's gardening club. They are all so enthusiastic and it's joy to be with them.<br />
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Here's a recap of what we've done this term. We started two-three weeks late and one session was cancelled due to weather and another because of a poorly toddler (mine).<br />
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But we've got lots done, everything, in fact, that I had planned. Oh, ok, maybe not the broad beans but that's because I wasn't entirely sure where to put them. And I must be getting better because I didn't refer to my <a href="http://carrotsandkids.blogspot.com/2008/06/hand-holding-with-playground-potting.html">bible </a>once!<br />
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So here's what we did:<br />
<ul><li>Sowed sweet peas in loo rolls and when those ran out into coir pots that someone kindly donated. We got through at least two packets which are now all coming up in the grow house. The children were very enthusiastic about this activity.</li>
<li>Cleared the beds, weeded and sowed green manure on one and covered another in well rotted horse manure. They weren't so keen on the latter task, I have to say.</li>
<li>Sowed garlic, one packet in our "winter veg bed" and one head I bought at a supermarket. We sowed those ones in little pots as a kind of experiment to see which do the best.</li>
<li>Sowed shallots in the ground. These are already shooting up. We followed this up another week by planting another two rows, mainly to fill the bed. It also contains a couple of cabbages, leeks and garlic.</li>
<li>We planted hyacinth bulbs in individual pots and these are now housed in the cold, dark boiler room. We also planted some paperwhites and other narcissi in pots and green shoots are emerging in the grow house. Gotta love that grow house!</li>
<li>We made a new flower bed and planted daffs and lillies in these. Some red and white striped tulips went into a pot.</li>
<li>The free Morrison salad seeds were planted in a large pot and they are all coming up. </li>
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Today we concentrated on looking after the wildlife so we went for a short hunt around the school grounds (it's a small school) for logs to pile up on one side of the garden to make a home for any hedgehogs or toads. I'm not sure if any will check into our critter hotel but it was a nice thing to do, a thank you if you like to the wildlife.<br />
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I also whizzed into a local diy centre before the session started and bought some peanuts, fat balls and other bird seed which we strung around the trees and fence bordering the garden. The children were delighted by a curious robin who will hopefully be joined by other feathered friends.<br />
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Have to say, feel a litttle bit anxious about the new term as I'm not entirely sure what we're going to do. As ever, I'm always open to (cheap) suggestions. I've asked for <a href="http://carrotsandkids.blogspot.com/2008/10/one-for-my-christmas-list.html">Alys' book </a>for Christmas so maybe I'll get a few ideas from there. I'm also (really, just thought of this) going to send off for lots of seed catalogues and get them to do some cutting and sticking on the first session to give me an idea of flowers and veggies they may like to plant.........hmmm it's hard to say who enjoys this club more!Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-75962721220668243752008-11-14T11:57:00.002+00:002008-11-15T09:01:01.691+00:00Daydreams<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5yulZWtAZH8IPsEFU1V7o7OoIKcC9eHDXyenppIuyCpZ3UfxkGT9X1cm4bTd1co_KR4FGmHIzTtz8G07i8DqkX7eKQ9umagOJIzRTEAq6pDzNCOCGBpxhqCE33hDW_11YxyzBTBaGfK0F/s1600-h/IMG_8970.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5yulZWtAZH8IPsEFU1V7o7OoIKcC9eHDXyenppIuyCpZ3UfxkGT9X1cm4bTd1co_KR4FGmHIzTtz8G07i8DqkX7eKQ9umagOJIzRTEAq6pDzNCOCGBpxhqCE33hDW_11YxyzBTBaGfK0F/s400/IMG_8970.JPG" /></a></div><br />
I always thought, before I really got into gardening, that all gardeners did in the darker months was huddle with seed catalogues and dream.<br />
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Now I know differently. I'm still planning and dreaming but there's a fair bit to do. And this weekend looks (<i>touch wood and whistle)</i> as though it's going to be dry!<br />
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My first job is to get out into the front garden and plant my tulips which I succumbed to at Chelsea. They arrived a while ago but....y'know how it is at Carrots. However, as ever, nothing is quite as simple as just popping in some bulbs. Nope. I have plans to redesign this very boring, uninspiring space but that involves a fair bit of Hubby's time and some money (naturally).<br />
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I shall probably get shot for writing this, there is probably an unwritten gardening law that I'm about to break, but I want to replace our hedge with.......a fence. There, said it. The hedge is really awful, it bows out, is not straight and despite regular trims just grows up and up and I don't want something that high.<br />
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I'd like a rustic type fence, something quite low and which I could grow things up on both sides. We're also going to move the gate so you enter the garden from the other side. I know we could replace the hedge with another one but I have little people and a dog that need to be kept in a secure garden from the get go.<br />
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There is probably another solution that involves less work and less money but I have neither the imagination or knowledge to come up with it!<br />
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But what has this got to do with my tulips? I'm going to make a big, curvy border on one side of the new path and the tulips shall go in there. Or rather, will once the work's done. My plan is currently languishing at number 32 on my Top 40 of Things That We Need To Do Now. So until it occupies the number one slot I shall just plant the bulbs in tubs and containers.<br />
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And don't get me started on the back garden........Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-24149453626766719932008-11-05T07:45:00.001+00:002008-11-05T07:45:01.064+00:00Just Who Am I Running the Gardening Club For?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYzCF_RIeSX9635AiIsqq_diTG_E1WbaB5OGX9dAtOhLBSg-OFuZjiLonJ6KugQnw8eXzHuz5Ot-z_TycQZQlTAXq5v2jFjpiVv5Vzekfd-1tO7ujOvl-xzhDrVExwML1Bl1A6h1lCo9op/s1600-h/IMG_8830-1.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 336px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYzCF_RIeSX9635AiIsqq_diTG_E1WbaB5OGX9dAtOhLBSg-OFuZjiLonJ6KugQnw8eXzHuz5Ot-z_TycQZQlTAXq5v2jFjpiVv5Vzekfd-1tO7ujOvl-xzhDrVExwML1Bl1A6h1lCo9op/s400/IMG_8830-1.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5264940567608936322" border="0" /></a><br />I am quite lazy. Oh yes I am. I know it looks as though I'm not - <span style="font-style: italic;">five children! Runs a gardening club! - </span>but one quick look at my home (messy and chaotic), the allotment (shallot sets <span style="font-style: italic;">still </span>not in) or even this blog (sparodic posting) will confirm that fact.<br /><br />But come Monday lunchtime there I am with 17 children, loads of loo rolls and various sweet pea seeds and vroom! I'm off.<br /><br />Take a quick peek back at home and the saved newspaper sits forlornly on the side, still not transformed into paper pots, the tulips are not in and all my plans remain just that - ideas in my head and not brought to fruition.<br /><br />Which makes me think - who am I running this gardening club for exactly? Because, unless there is a reason why I absolutely <span style="font-style: italic;">have</span> to, there is no other gardening going on in my life at the moment. So it's a jolly good job that I have the club. Bless 'em, my little gardeners think I am doing <span style="font-style: italic;">them </span>a favour when all along it's the other way round....<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />~ <span style="font-style: italic;">I am thinking of moving this blog to Typepad. Well, when I say move, what I mean is start blogging at Typepad and have a link from here to there because I'm not sure how to move lock, stock and barrel (I've looked into it but it looks complicated). I know it's a pain, having to update links etc so that's why I'm thinking about it ~</span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-67085142135705673262008-11-03T07:45:00.001+00:002008-11-03T07:45:01.072+00:00Growing Your Own - Possible But Stupid?!Cards on the table - I'm not a great fan of Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall. He's okay, I've got a couple of his cookbooks (Hubby likes the game recipes, I like his family cookbook) but I do find him a bit annoying.<br />
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He annoys me in the same way that Jamie Oliver does, who I actually like more than Hugh. I get tired of being hectored about expensive (and it is invariably more expensive than not) organic food by a couple of blokes who, though well intentioned, have no idea what it means to live as most ordinary people do; within the confines of tight budgets.<br />
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Sometimes, depending on my mood, I get fed up seeing their wonderful gardens, perfect set-ups and their license to print more money by extolling us to live as they do. Goodness, I could probably have a kitchen garden to rival Jamie's if I had such an expert gardener tending it.<br />
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I realise it's probably unusual in the gardening world not to love HFW, after all he's very enthusiastic about getting us to grow our own. I caught a bit of his River Cottage Autumn programme on Thursday night and was intrigued by the scheme allowing people to grow veggies in others' gardens for a share of the produce. It is, I think, something my very green village is in the process of setting up (that and apparently more allotments!) but was less enamoured with the squirrel stew, amongst other dishes, he was preparing.<br />
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By some coincidence I was also surfing at the same time (oh, I'm good at multi-tasking) and stumbled upon this article by critic AA Gill about River Cottage Autumn. I don't agree with everything he wrote but I did have a chuckle at this:<br />
<blockquote><blockquote><i>"His shows rely on the cosy repetition, the absence of surprises, the huggab</i><i>le sense that bad things happen only in cities, and that somewhere just off the M25 is a never-never happy valley where Hugh lives, surrounded by smiley, monosyllabic peasants who knit those appalling jerseys and turn slugs and stinging nettles into delicious fizzy pop."</i></blockquote></blockquote>Mr Gill also seems very anti-self sufficiency. I think he feels we should be concentrating on helping each other and not on helping ourselves. He even goes as far as to call it "small-minded, selfish, mean and ultimately fascist". Goodness, who knew trying to rely on big multi-nationals less and eschewing the rampant consumerism found today would engender such vitriol?<br />
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"Growing your own vegetables is a bit like making your own fridge or whittling a car. Possible, but stupid," according to Mr Gill.<br />
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Which doesn't make me angry but does make me sad. For poor old Mr Gill who looks likely never to feel the magic of growing plants from seed, never feed his family from his own hard graft instead of someone else's and will never experience that special feeling gardening, particularly veggies, can give you - empowerment.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-49817063655701862342008-10-26T15:07:00.002+00:002008-10-26T21:43:06.889+00:00Simple Weekends=Happinesss<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQ6KcelL_bbn_sUc_gl9w4FrEXj5b-ORKinH0XwcVO_IZiG_GpbGBN4azpoIBXky4o2SnmIp8FDohvmxvT2KUJSCYiQ0Lpz-iNa2or1Ehh0mMWDUuHICQ8B6xsm4_R-zTf7Nv2_BK_pmw9/s1600-h/IMG_8440.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgxxZdELTnluf1qhlmgHH4lvaXjSHpxW-6Ftr9aEVCewfbAVUf0Xe3bmIaGu_z74TNEwURyCPv6GSpTh-JC3uyMK3yQNNPAfZrfyYBqLo4_IigjzVTez-wDX3qLlrozd0yLlS2GQXH5pHvm/s400-r/IMG_8440.JPG" border="0" /></a></div><br />WEEKENDS are supposed to leave you feeling refreshed and revitalised. Only mine don't. There is so much to do that by the time they roll round the dream of cooking lovely meals, country walks and reconnecting usually remains just that. A dream.<br /><br />Now though, it is all about to change thanks to Elspeth Thompson's new book <i>The Wonderful Weekend Book, Reclaim Life's Simple Pleasures. </i>Although it is about the good, simple things in life it is not about do nothing, quiet, boring weekends.<br /><br /><br />It's not a gardening book either but it is interspersed with gardening ideas, some of which will not be new to gardeners. But it's not those that I loved in this book, it's the attitude.<br /><br /><br />Elspeth encourages us to think outside the box in order to get to grips with our gardens and allotments, to make them a pleasure and not a chore. I especially like the idea of building a shelter out of willow if you're not allowed sheds at your allotment. Now, why didn't I think of that?<br /><br />Elspeth is a persuasive advocate of getting back to the simple pleasures and eschewing the supermarkets, DIY centres and fast food in order to reconnect with ourselves and each other.<br /><br /><i>"Recent research on the nature of happiness suggests that what most people need in order to feel content is not big cars nor fancy </i><i>clothes but the straightforward stuff: a good walk, watching the sunset, time with family and friends and some wholesome, home-baked </i><i>food." </i>she writes.<br /><br />A chapter is also given to reinstating Sundays as a tradional day of calm and relaxation with ideas for the perfect breakfast followed by various activities. It's not a book stuck in a time-warp though, there are plenty of suggested websites scattered throughout. I'm even thinking of copying the computer/mobile Sunday detox (I said <i>thinking. </i>I'm not entirely sure I'd be able to).<br /><br />Thanks to this book I am planning a whole host of creative, wonderful projects which will, I am sure, spill over from the weekend into the whole of my life. It will sit on my bookshelf and remind me, inspire me and refresh me, like an old friend whose outlook chimes with my own.<br /><br />Now if only I could manage to persuade the children to do in one of the most enticing suggestions - spending the day in bed....<br /><br />*<span style="font-style: italic;"> Part of this book review is reproduced on my other <a href="http://knickerbockerglory.typepad.com/beingordinary/">blog </a>*</span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-85930038629504935832008-10-07T15:58:00.001+01:002008-10-14T14:19:24.296+01:00One For My Christmas List<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi495NVQvo1TK8iv4BftLWRHMfJPWWiw3autSGXTAeXswjUAu7ztDY948GzF68Amt3WvuDg2ccpeS9CptemsmiXzuQv7oAyx_0_yP35E2fbqf-_mlSaa7E_wqUJFLNVQdk5TpMoFc99y0RD/s1600-h/thriftygardener.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiTz6T5D_hz2ghV0PxPOkf1ykILrrTr5n1z9HhYXc8yHtZI-yT_mw3PBeYlotPfOZcUh0y208M_NU3i4SQFwKGPO1LXXDRB8fE18D9g8xLDN91wF6uBfeN2HREFDakMaDWCRS7yZhDhsrxv/s320-r/thriftygardener.jpg" /></a></div><br />
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I have started to think about Christmas. I <i>know, </i>I'm sorry. But it is genetic and in previous years, while I have thought about it I haven't actually done anything and so November and December finds me scurrying round the shops, along with everyone else, like a headless chicken.<br />
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I have also started thinking about what <i>I </i>would like. This is good. It is not as self-centred as it would seem. Honestly. Because when I stand in the bookshop thumbing yet another gardening book, instead of reaching for my purse I am now reaching for the shelf AND PUTTING IT BACK while thinking "Hmmm, I'll ask for that for Christmas". Yay! See how good I'm being.<br />
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The above book is one that is top of my list. Alys Fowler is growing on me and I like what little I've seen of her book. When I first started watching Gardeners' World back in the spring she would, well, annoy me. Just a little.<br />
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"Is it because she's on telly and you're not?" teased Hubby. Well, doh! Of course, I'd retort, because being "on telly" has always been my ambition. ~ Sigh ~ (for those of you wondering, I'm being sarcastic).<br />
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But since GW gave us a peek at some of the presenters' gardens (did we see Joe Swift's? Did I miss that?) I have warmed to her. Her garden was lovely but normal. And small! But look what she's done with it!<br />
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So now her book, which I will have probably read while leaning up against the bookshelves at Waterstones by the time Santa visits, is on my list. Along with<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Wonderful-Weekend-Book-Reclaiming-Pleasures/dp/1848540469/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1223990224&sr=1-2"> this one,</a> which is not really about gardening but a bit.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-69237142514606757742008-10-03T10:15:00.001+01:002009-02-01T22:37:05.786+00:00Now That's More Like ItI like reading gardening and house magazines, supplements and blogs but not very many of these tell it like it is. And that is for families with young children, gardens mostly are not the peaceful, beautiful havens everybody else seems to have.<br /><br />When I think of my friends' gardens, the ones with children, I see that <i>my</i> reality is theirs' too. They have goalposts, swings, climbing frames, washing lines, bare patches on their lawns, bikes abadoned anywhere. And when I read about family homes and gardens I see none of this.<br /><br />What I want to see is how ordinary families (those with ordinary budgets and <i>not </i>the services of garden designers on hand) manage to incorporate not a child-friendly space but a <b>child loving </b>one while keeping it looking reasonably good and eeking out a bit of area for an adult who loves to garden.<br /><br />I've written about this <a href="http://carrotsandkids.blogspot.com/2008/05/real-family-gardens.html">before</a> and Sharon Lovejoy, author of one of my <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Roots-Shoots-Buckets-Boots-Gardening/dp/digital-features/0761110569">favourite books,</a> kindly commented that washing lines will feature in her latest book, which I plan on checking out.<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgLEcgUqzmQBMeJ3lviukdFq9qY803tm90DlRdUZdzEGlGWZm1Erz2KnYVx5SombXiq6EvJTk20ftU6ppMtnPhdzfRy6XSteBzHn4x80poQXL0hEnaplkv6CMkud9poR0UO1mhPccKzmy6Q/s1600-h/IMG_7175.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKZTzJpDmbHrB1A5MVdpE87jLdWN2kNWWyCDqY8gU0OeI0_NhoxFNvAUftSq4AHyQyQwBt80IgYeUWoh-Mko7ZRlKDokbufSTwZt1H87BNAyrDpd2YYLi-HQRnfC4ZFsiBr77mXvFaz76z/s400-r/IMG_7175.JPG" border="0" /></a></div>And, lo!, in this week's Sunday Times' Home supplement there was an <a href="http://property.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/property/interiors/article4832451.ece">article </a>on creating family homes, and no, they weren't perfect in design but perfect for family life.<br /><br /><blockquote>"<span style="color: rgb(153, 0, 0);"><i>Remember, your mini-Versailles, complete with topiary, nymph statuettes and colourful flowerbeds, will also have to accommodate the unstylish - trampoline, tyre swing, paddling pool, guinea-pig hutch and crumbling shed. Don't be precious."</i></span></blockquote><br /><span style="color:black;">Oh, music to my ears! Don't be precious indeed! Perhaps it's a result of the impending recession, but such a down-to-earth attitude is so refreshing.</span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-74162449206974343242008-10-01T07:30:00.002+01:002008-10-01T07:30:01.403+01:00October at the Gardening Club<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVMqyoeIJMCjYbbuCLp1DuaTv9qOJyB4h-6hv0RULhlmndWUkVma5KvzeHfxHkO0anHCfiaMo9j7uTnwfuphBJbrXkjH9-bUy-7y8ILQMJ7cNwuNKzbHIeGOonNJGb2IDoJ3xQtmGyBv7h/s1600-h/IMG_7108.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVMqyoeIJMCjYbbuCLp1DuaTv9qOJyB4h-6hv0RULhlmndWUkVma5KvzeHfxHkO0anHCfiaMo9j7uTnwfuphBJbrXkjH9-bUy-7y8ILQMJ7cNwuNKzbHIeGOonNJGb2IDoJ3xQtmGyBv7h/s400/IMG_7108.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5251449641132193074" border="0" /></a><br />Gardening Club's started back - <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">yay</span>! - with 15 new children and two old hands who are going to be my helpers (only they don't know that yet).<br /><br />The first session was on Monday (which strictly speaking was September) and it went really well. Sometimes I try to work out why and this is what I came up with today - I was not tired (<span style="font-weight: bold;">must remember to go to bed early on Sunday evenings)</span>, my head feels clearer with my youngest at playgroup two mornings a week (such luxury, time) and I just feel more confident.<br /><br />So what's new this term? A flower bed Hubby very kindly dug for me. I had to get him to bring a very heavy bag of well rotted manure for me at the weekend so I thought while he was there....I was supervising (of course).<br /><br />A new herb bed is also under way. More work needs to be done here but there's no rush. And we have a grow house (hooray!). This will make a <span style="font-style: italic;">huge</span> difference.<br /><br />I'm particularly pleased with this because I managed to find a replacement cover for less than a tenner to go over my old frame. What I would <span style="font-style: italic;">really</span> like is a <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">polytunnel</span> like <a href="http://www.guardianbookshop.co.uk/BerteShopWeb/viewProduct.do?ISBN=9780852650981">Dominic Murphy</a> who manages to squeeze his club in when it's wet but we don't have the space or funds and they look quite ugly. As it stands during wet weather we can't do anything because the whole school is inside and there's no room for us. So pray for a dry autumn, winter and spring.<br /><br />My plans for the coming weeks include planting daffodil bulbs (in the new flower bed) along with some bulbs I picked up for<a href="http://carrotsandkids.blogspot.com/2008/06/every-cloud.html"> ten pence, </a>sowing sweet pea seeds, starting off hyacinth bulbs, planting garlic and some overwintering shallots, clearing the runner bean bed, laying the manure and covering with newspaper and cardboard and, I think, sowing some green manure in the other bed. The third one will contain all our winter stuff.<br /><br />And while that sounds a lot I know from experience that 15 children can whip through the planned activities rather quickly. Still, it is all looking good.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-14381113101312492392008-09-29T07:30:00.001+01:002008-09-28T23:03:25.092+01:00Allotment Tips for the Time Poor (that's everyone, right) # 1<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK7Bq2gf29rdr4l_TEL4pDAKWJL1yaL-tf2Dj_gsuhr8cwsJ2hwlKBzWM9DOWQN_UOH6Jqwrk7uZaigZ48953bp9NUaQQpumf-GLJil6wWSDuvgu6DGljO_c2eopYdxY4GlXHuan61M1Ax/s1600-h/IMG_7131.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgK7Bq2gf29rdr4l_TEL4pDAKWJL1yaL-tf2Dj_gsuhr8cwsJ2hwlKBzWM9DOWQN_UOH6Jqwrk7uZaigZ48953bp9NUaQQpumf-GLJil6wWSDuvgu6DGljO_c2eopYdxY4GlXHuan61M1Ax/s400/IMG_7131.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5251194120000880594" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Really, I feel a bit presumptuous giving others tips. I mean, have you seen my allotment lately? Well, no you haven't, because it's too awful to photograph, and neither have I, for which there is no excuse.<br /><br />It is rather a case of feast or famine where the allotment is concerned; I'm either up there all the time or not at all. So it was with some trepidation that I dragged the whole family up there yesterday. Yes, there were a few howls of protest but as far as I can see unless 12-year-old boys are eating, on the Playstation or riding their bikes there are <i>always</i> howls, so I ignored them.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5hJfISaI1wgVeuRqtr_J6BnqcDQj7cVAdK67WNIIGV5ivTZCoPUJsExsI_VHwrfdH_fUE1UC1GtZuvC1H1peF8vokoLMGiIG-EYx1hZTUSPEuUwdqyMZZvi5Deu-YVMGjTpTfOUnnhF4c/s1600-h/IMG_7139.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj5hJfISaI1wgVeuRqtr_J6BnqcDQj7cVAdK67WNIIGV5ivTZCoPUJsExsI_VHwrfdH_fUE1UC1GtZuvC1H1peF8vokoLMGiIG-EYx1hZTUSPEuUwdqyMZZvi5Deu-YVMGjTpTfOUnnhF4c/s400/IMG_7139.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5251192335670346882" border="0" /></a>While pulling at the weeds and ordering others about I did think "oh, I must remember this for next year" but as my memory is appalling I'm writing it here.<br /><br /><ul><li><b>Tip 1: </b>Plant nasturtiums between rows to suppress weeds. These plants are so easy to grow, look pretty and (best of all) seem to thrive on neglect, which is just as well.<br /></li></ul><br /><ul><li><b>Tip 2:</b> Butternut squash (and I'm assuming pumpkins) are also easy to grow, are tasty and make a lovely alternative to courgettes, which are also great and prolific but sometimes a bit <i>too</i> prolific.</li></ul><br /><ul><li><b> Tip 3: </b>Paving slabs are wonderful laid onto bare earth between beds as they don't rot and suppress the weeds wonderfully. I've tried all sorts of paths - bark chippings (messy and expensive) and carpet (great hidey holes for slugs, rots and doesn't suppress weeds) and slabs have been the best. I recycled mine which were no longer needed from our garden but if you had to buy I guess this would be the most expensive option.</li></ul><br /><ul><li><b>Tip 4: </b>Raised beds are ideal for allotments, allowing you to work your plot in bite sized chunks, reduce digging, and easily improve the soil but (yes, there is a but) they also make superb homes for slugs and snails. The wood also eventually rots and then you have to start again which can make it a bit expensive. I loved my beds but have removed the rotting wood and just kept them as beds, edged with my paving paths. This, I think, is the perfect solution. Well, I hope.</li></ul>Now I have a bit more free time and I've broken my allotment visiting drought, I plan to spend more time at the plot. At least I'll be getting fresh air and not spending money so it's all good. I just have to dig out the flask as I can't be too far away from coffee (even if it is decaf, sigh).Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-9580449364304927382008-09-27T14:58:00.000+01:002008-09-27T15:49:26.851+01:00Oh Okay, Now I Get ItOh my. I think next week I shall watch "Gardeners' World" with a notebook. At least it'll save me having to rewatch it on iPlayer later.<br />
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As a newbie gardener I've steered clear of discussions about the presenters, who should take over and what needs to be changed. I didn't watch it when Geoff Hamilton hosted it, nor Alan Titchmarsh and just started tuning in when Monty Don became ill.<br />
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I read the reams of opinions found on others' blogs but it was with a bemused air. <i>What does it matter, </i>I thought, <i>the programme's ok, all the presenters are ok, whoever takes over will be ok.</i><br />
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Oh how wrong I was. Obviously I <i>was</i> missing something - and that was how good the programme <b>can</b> be. I watched the first one with the new presenter Toby Buckland, who I didn't really know (should I admit that?), and I enjoyed it immensly but I did wonder what experienced gardeners would make of it. Would they find all those tips patronising? Wouldn't he be offering people anything new?<br />
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But watching last night, within minutes, I knew that I suddenly loved this programme, and I loved Toby (only don't tell Hubby). He managed to share his enthusiasm, impart <i>lots </i>handy tips and inspire me to ditch my plans for an expensive potting shed and track down a secondhand greenhouse, complete with a home-made bench made out of breeze blocks and scaffold planks.<br />
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And really, anyone who can make me feel I <i>can</i> garden and do it cheaply wins my vote every time.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-84539423779978724012008-09-26T00:08:00.001+01:002008-09-26T01:06:12.433+01:00No, I'm Alright Thanks. Really.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXDdrb14H_Rs1lk1GDN4gRe1OOpxEz6gAcZM_AjWippqWM2ZMfnDtTRcurQIfS1ohid3vjNFMDSuFTc1bL4r4NfApLrWopa2DNMVFWs9wDtk8B_yiM7gD-h3J0j1xLgn-b3OAiAMUwZF-d/s1600-h/IMG_6939.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbZJRsRb2XwstNyS4Q7Becq1JlsHLzFa5pnjyuuT311ddZTkKPfLUJpWF1_sg_yGsPe5Uu862AwMsxcoUZ7HYfo4ca8o3kOup0LFC5suJc2qklIS0GBYi1NTaJWAj6qwQzHuh7md8yIMPg/s400-r/IMG_6939.JPG" border="0" /></a></div>September is drawing to a close and the gardening club still hasn't started up. It was supposed to this week but thanks to an administrative error by the school it has been postponed until next week.<br /><br />I am eager to get going. I purposefully haven't done anything to the beds because I want the children to get stuck in. They need to own it, tend to it, remove the dying plants, earth up the leeks, weed, think about what they want to grow, feed the soil, prepare for winter.<br /><br />Of course, I've got plans so will guide them, gently, towards the garlic bulbs and sweet pea seeds and will cut open the bags of manure (I've heard scarey things about well-rotted stuff from farms so am Playing Safe).<br /><br />But while it is theirs' it is also mine. Which I think may cause me some problems.<br /><br />I mean, I'm not a gardener, really. I'm rubbish at it. I don't much like gardening when it's cold or raining so that poses a few problems living here, in the UK. I cannot claim to know the correct name of any plant and when I read those names on others' blogs I switch off. Composting scares me. Will I need two bins for the school? Will I have to turn it and if so how do you do that with those plastic ones that look like wheely bins? Will I single handedly introduce a rat population to the school? See - I know, well, not much.<br /><br />My enthusiasm did wane toward the end of last term and I'm not sure why. The forgetting to water was dispiriting and sometimes it was hard coming up with things to do. But I am recapturing the old tingle of enthusiasm and I'm looking forward to the new year with new children, hopefully as keen as the last lot.<br /><br />This project has become more important to me than I perhaps realised. It is doing something special, at least that's how <i>I </i>feel, that is not connected to my everyday life and which is purely (I hope) done for the love of it, which I'm eager to share with the children. And while motherhood is rewarding, it is a bit like baking a cake; you never know the result of your efforts until it's done. Not so with the club. The results of my efforts, via the children's work, can be seen swaying in the breeze or being chomped by slugs.<br /><br />The sense of achievement is wonderful. I've put a lot of work into the club (not to mention money); I designed the layout and Hubby built it, I redesigned the layout and he moved it; I ran a competition and bought the prizes, gave any child with a birthday a small box of chocolates, produced two newsletters, took numerous photos, set up a display for the open day and updated the club's scrapbook.<br /><br />And so, really, I don't want to share. I really don't. And now, after writing this, I don't care if I sound like some weird, possessive person with not much going on in her life (I mean how important is any of this, it's only a school gardening club after all). I shall practice my assertiveness instead of stuttering and blustering that I don't need any assistance when told a new mother is going to help (did her friend tell me she is "going" to? Did I imagine that?). I shall smile calmly when told she is - gasp!- a gardener.<br /><br />I'm not sure how I can convey this to people, without looking strange. Perhaps instead I shall just say a polite no thanks, smile and slip them a piece of paper with this blog address scribbled on it.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-87719819363774031352008-09-23T13:33:00.002+01:002008-09-23T14:03:35.894+01:00Why My Blog is Like a SpiderplantThat's how I'm currently thinking about "Carrots" at the moment.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgno1gbb-wxZ53HRqZ97wFqFbaXe2KiWd27Aw_V8H2TIE8_SMawcYoJqsBmBMP3PeknyWc7PYarw2OtcQUi9ws_ZpgtJX7r2oZNCpq1mIxDRKaY5DSsXt_GVqujFL-hmsjWSbs5611JQPmL/s1600-h/beingordinaryscreenshot.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGjfAUZiwZRyWZwVYlL7ugrMMnncWx5ueJtrsvEAGt-68i9LiysnlcmKyZneDEb_EmzLR2p7LF8hTW61XYkUJSe2lP9mXsq8Xkjy2bImM8n1Sz8gYobLt_M4TVGRzgcnXuFLD5V1FsZniW/s400-r/beingordinaryscreenshot.jpg" /></a>Is it because it's common? Ordinary? A bit naff? Often neglected?<br />
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Well, I guess I could say <i>yes</i> to all of the above but it's not the original reason I thought of (those others came to me while writing this post). No, the reason is because this blog has spawned a baby one.<br />
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Yup, as if there isn't enough to do, I've decided to have <i>another</i> blog. Called <b>The Ecstasy of Being Ordinary, </b>it can be found <a href="http://knickerbockerglory.typepad.com/beingordinary/"><b><span style="color: #cc0000;"><span style="font-size: large;">HERE.</span></span></b></a><br />
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<span style="color: #cc0000;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">Now let's see what else I can add to my plate. Chairperson of the Parents Teacher Association perhaps? Playgroup committee member maybe?</span></span></span></span><b><span style="color: #cc0000;"><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></span></b>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-54521163623221984732008-09-15T13:01:00.004+01:002008-09-15T13:27:07.861+01:00The Flower No Garden Should Be Without<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnwkJjvWOixBQLfQkem7wKvdpIAvD1t9UJ6h8XgyEvSple8XBJY_iWEGOQ6g4wRXC9mEa2fDVaCsx7k3zbNNime9UGkxyQCVVa5Ka664iEgJjODbYxA2D_B-yqy9Yth3wKuaOLdYiMOAva/s1600-h/sunflowerfilmgrain.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjnwkJjvWOixBQLfQkem7wKvdpIAvD1t9UJ6h8XgyEvSple8XBJY_iWEGOQ6g4wRXC9mEa2fDVaCsx7k3zbNNime9UGkxyQCVVa5Ka664iEgJjODbYxA2D_B-yqy9Yth3wKuaOLdYiMOAva/s400/sunflowerfilmgrain.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5246223368816211378" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center; color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">Oh sunflower! How I love you! Let me count the ways -<br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 0);">you are easy to grow, you are bright and cheerful</span><br />and you are fun!<br />What more could anyone ask of a flower? (Except, perhaps, next year<br />a whole lot more of you....).<br /></span></div>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-15948902080379586382008-09-06T07:30:00.000+01:002008-09-06T07:30:00.709+01:00Why I Love My Blog #1<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfvWBV4HmTmb1SsCqAv8goKmpEtbcA3r4ZF-r36Q0zcpBSr6x_7scqT5xkpbDrG-wVwXKXPn-WwYLtK9WART5AaOXMMoSBwhgI5o6Zk23c03NFqGZcG498Dxq2vHn6Cu48G45QWnpS_fna/s1600-h/Garden+Pics.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfvWBV4HmTmb1SsCqAv8goKmpEtbcA3r4ZF-r36Q0zcpBSr6x_7scqT5xkpbDrG-wVwXKXPn-WwYLtK9WART5AaOXMMoSBwhgI5o6Zk23c03NFqGZcG498Dxq2vHn6Cu48G45QWnpS_fna/s400/Garden+Pics.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5242289313116694370" border="0" /></a><br />Not sure I'm allowed to say or admit that. I mean, it's a bit <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">big headed</span> isn't it?<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size:180%;">But stop!<br /><br /></span></div>This isn't a Carrots and Kids Blow Your Own Trumpet Day. Good heavens, no.<br /><br />One of the reasons I love my blog is because it's made me take photos, tons more photos than I ever would have done without it.<br /><br />Pictures of flowers, weeds, birds, my allotment, my children, watering cans, packets of seeds. Obviously I would've taken photographs of my children but perhaps more posed, less of the ordinary mucking around at the allotment and back garden kind of stuff. The every day things that usually go unrecorded.<br /><br />And my blog has enabled me, pushed me to do that. It's given room in a very crowded life for a love of photography. And for that I'm grateful. Thank you 'Carrots'.Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-33619287129193887022008-09-05T14:11:00.000+01:002008-09-05T14:11:00.578+01:00So Life Returns to Normal<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjY8WVBoqoHrcHrgv_rc6cPLVAUVdoXZ2ze7X5Ym9h5JJiObamAw8IX0FjK2QrqVFW7cioyGksrS9G8UqU4QJer4SFnbI1TgRyqyrOmknosGugRFA9QXrtWMLYtjxmVORdZzy5NCH9Q6u4w/s1600-h/scan0001-1.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjY8WVBoqoHrcHrgv_rc6cPLVAUVdoXZ2ze7X5Ym9h5JJiObamAw8IX0FjK2QrqVFW7cioyGksrS9G8UqU4QJer4SFnbI1TgRyqyrOmknosGugRFA9QXrtWMLYtjxmVORdZzy5NCH9Q6u4w/s400/scan0001-1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5242299490562592962" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;">So.<br /></div>That was it. Summer. I think I may have blinked. Lots of times because I certainly feel like I missed it.<br /><br />But let's forget about that and <span style="font-size:130%;">MOVE ON<span style="font-size:100%;"> to Autumn. Ah, how I love you Autumn. The mellowness. The golden leaves, crunchy underfoot (in hopefully new shoes. Autumn always calls for new shoes. Sadly not on my feet these days. How <span style="font-style: italic;">can </span>they charge so much for children's shoes?).<br /><br />Well it would feel mellow and everything would seem golden and leaves would be crunchy if only this rain would stop.<br /><br />Yep. Children are back at school. And it's raining. Life is back to normal.<br /></span></span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-45778024555364116342008-09-04T13:39:00.000+01:002008-09-04T14:10:12.329+01:00I Think I May Have Bought The Ugliest Bunch of Flowers. Ever.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQlilJa2fKmAxGYMqPAmQv2fje6PmdMSqNaRbxcBajh2GbbQ9A9sxpyINFBVXhnHi_4breJrOhNMm9sscWqz_ml20l9otCw-hMDv4mCL2qFSdHYyH92OlIOU0aTCv6AyHodHY-C9oJqPEt/s1600-h/IMG_6593.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhrQqSMN2YUxw-ZFJh28ctwRVsDwuo8x2p26DMueBGC8urfj3IWtxQkOq3MdInLJsU5W2udnwK6pKtU8eqemybU_ZjY-QBnwjK292pcSJDBK-mHQgs6aYkAzrJhrdAunt1edZLi1m1TXwCc/s400-r/IMG_6593.jpg" /></a></div><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Is that even possible?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">I mean, that's a bit like saying "that bar of chocolate is inedible". I don't have much experience of either of these two things. Until today. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">They don't smell, my disappointed three-year-old informed me, they feel papery and well, I don't really like them. They don't even have a name. "Mixed filler" is on the label.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">In my defence all I can say is that we were rushing (what a surprise) and I'm on a budget (ditto) but wanted a bunch of flowers to make my yoghurt encrusted, dart pock-marked forty-year-old inherited wooden table pretty. Bit of a tough order, seemingly.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">What I did the manage to do was choose the ugliest bunch of flowers in the supermarket (serves me right, hey, for shopping <i>there). </i>Still, it was a close call. My daughter wanted some bright yellow chrysanthemums. Thinking about it maybe I chose the <b>second </b>ugliest bunch of flowers. At least mine are purple.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;">Do you think I'm being unnecessarily harsh? Is there such a thing as an ugly flower?<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-size: small;"> </span> </span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-43108522141347713122008-08-19T07:30:00.000+01:002008-08-19T07:30:00.556+01:00Delightful Dahlias<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1_1eeESTQv3vyBlO4etAvelo1bBUOqhlEWNVqMbaCoI8uH-8uHede254vYqY5K69jvWIsrevNOy_C-cA7jLUiAGJ8_LW1NOimisE6oZ4NopXLWI8ihuYieeXa8CYCuse56PjMM1CKRk0z/s1600-h/IMG_6150.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgv6dxe1PeMnEnT-mDzZNx6pKnFCbkoaZ-Angu0u8avB7NJZqquE6SW8zDyVWmZDZrPYGkJtoZ7HNTfKaqm5gQYwhh5TTEbnFIkcNj7sMpjsI3WmMp5bLOPwQUhw6VcPX09RTUyI1-QZZ9P/s400-r/IMG_6150.jpg" /></a> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">One of the lovely things about being such an unknowledgeable, cash-strapped gardener is that trends for the most part pass me by.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I'm not saying that those who know more (that'll be everybody then) slavishly follow the fashion in gardens but someone must I guess otherwise there wouldn't <i>be </i>trends.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"> In my case, ignorance really is bliss. Thanks to my wonderful trip to Chelsea earlier this year I could probably name a couple of things/plants/colour schemes that are "in" but it's only because of Chelsea that I could.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I haven't bought any gardening magazines for ages - mostly because I've been concentrating on the interior and boy! there's a lot to concentrate on and partly because when I'm neglecting my gardening side (yes, it's happened before and no doubt it'll happen again) I feel so unbelievably guilty reading about all the jobs I should be doing and all the veg I should be picking. So I don't bother to read them. For a while.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">But <i>something</i> must have seeped in (maybe via the tv and Gardener's World) because I have it lodged in my brain that dahlias were "out" but are now making a comeback. Who knew? Well, everybody obviously. But not me, clearly.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I love 'em. You just plonk them in the ground and before you know it the plants are growing really well and - wow! - you have flowers in <b>your front garden, </b>making it look like you're not a complete no-hoper on the gardening front after all. Phew! What's not to love? </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">My dahlias were rescued, I vaugely recall, from another part of the garden, although I can't for the life of me remember where. Other parts of the garden that could be home to flowers are non-existent. Anyway, I planted them a year ago last Easter when it was hot and I decided I would tackle our two sorely neglected borders at the front. I say <i>I </i>but if I'm honest I think it was number one son who actually did the plantings. I was faffing with some stocks I think that never, ever reappeared after that first year. Are they meant to? See, totally ignorant.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"> </div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">I'm not sure if you're supposed to pull up the dahlia bulbs in the winter and store them somewhere. I'm afraid to report that for me, lazy as well as ignorant and poor, this is a step too far. I haven't anywhere to store them anyway (seems I can add "shed deprived" to the ever growing list too). Still, they seem to have done okay this year as they did last summer. Next year, I shall be back lamenting, no doubt, their disappearance. So I'm enjoying them while I can.</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-54160403870718334472008-08-17T21:14:00.001+01:002008-08-17T22:14:28.310+01:00Sunshine and Flowers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEikbQTg1KpeIswHHzpKNeea01E9wAlwFjDnzBUrwioPOPPLBghFugTrleTDnmTRTi02cG7DI0ePP5bND8fA-izu4TCWYET-xjv9QiL1FrUECH_xx6WGm7IeJjhMivkQYZSLFuu90KA_vyEj/s1600-h/IMG_6100.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQPvn6umBO0C7WoSYhDuBALRD9_JdnCFQnUq3GKg0WPhyphenhyphen6C5sylABhmVmlu4aphB_gwNtcp6gs5vyrMytpWqqBUuWoiLbomb05bBuCrHa1ojQjagEnuuMyqt6Bwprk-Xhc8eeLgwqPvubR/s400-r/IMG_6100.jpg" /></a></div><br />
Well, the birthday didn't turn out too bad. I mean, I didn't get to sit on the swingseat with a Pimms but I did (briefly) sit on it because - ta! da! - IT DIDN'T RAIN!<br />
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No, Thursday August 14 was, for the most part, rain free. Which is, birthday or not, worth celebrating in its own right at the moment. I feel we haven't had a summer and now it feels like Autumn already. Just you wait and see, September will be glorious. Bound to be as the children will be back at school.<br />
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I got some wonderful presents, although no gardening stuff to show you, but a theme of flowers did seem to run through some of the goodies, so I thought I'd share those instead.<br />
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With some birthday money I did treat myself to a book (what else?) - Joy Larkcom's <a href="http://www.whsmith.co.uk/CatalogAndSearch/ProductDetails-Creative+Vegetable+Gardening+-9781845333904.html"><i>Creative Vegetable Gardening.</i></a> So far I've only had chance to look at the wonderful pictures but hopefully it'll be one for the inevitable autumnal evenings that are heading our way. I'll post a review on it later.<i><br />
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<i> </i>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-12020666603014573352008-08-13T19:07:00.003+01:002008-08-13T20:05:22.445+01:00Whaddya Think My Chances Are?<div style="text-align: left;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjRtFRZKptdy7aTFUWU4ZIFBs9X_unYf-kiPr6Owtfn1qwtuVyB6EPOn_sHLRPGxAaJPR-xxRV-X2Mltdzo-kO-_CGva5ReLtrXAmzDvBTizbZhDpCY5I1FGnN9kfrEfKUK5FhpPi_QvLUZ/s1600-h/IMG_5444.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="border: 0pt none ; background-color: transparent; clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; float: left; margin-right: 1em;"><img src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjuoeFM1bKEl6tSp3oZbpLQcMRKaCG45uiw_FGGryH1IPd_Nt-9YYcsstJ66rfDCrEKmoskYb0u0paFSvdo52aLB3ohyw_QzXPm_-s-QfAO1r26Y7GfylzkLWE-L9hVFzrsrU33mU9s0dLk/s400-r/IMG_5444.jpg" style="border: 0pt none ;" /></a> </div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: left;">Way back, when it was properly summer, I was dragged from my favourite spot in the garden and from the Sunday papers and had to go out.</div><br />"When it's my birthday," I proclaimed with all the confidence of someone whose August birthday is <i>always</i> hot and sunny, "I shall spend the whole day on this swing seat, reading and sipping Pimms."<br /><br />So, what do you think of the chances of that? Yeah, me too. Slim is too optimistic a word for it. How about absolutley no chance at all? Not unless the wind and the rain disappear and the weathermen stick lots of lovely suns on their map. Here's hoping....!<span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6786255027898902478.post-18505085364224406152008-08-12T15:23:00.003+01:002008-08-12T18:02:11.069+01:00In Praise of Other People's Gardens<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEpA_VteTOICp47NQUxhwXTwYceVrN1gNF3_CI5Hk6yqs6MCt1wmk4CVQYmyvaVIApWrB4ukqbLii7InZ-76rH2qjOci1bWUrj1ZvBmzPjUqK36MXrecwLK-H1o3z4fWfvX78UrA818dw8/s1600-h/IMG_5988.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiEpA_VteTOICp47NQUxhwXTwYceVrN1gNF3_CI5Hk6yqs6MCt1wmk4CVQYmyvaVIApWrB4ukqbLii7InZ-76rH2qjOci1bWUrj1ZvBmzPjUqK36MXrecwLK-H1o3z4fWfvX78UrA818dw8/s400/IMG_5988.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233674624200966178" border="0" /></a><br /><br />I love others' gardens. I don't necessarily mean gardens of friends, which can be lovely, but can also be as small and boring as mine with stress-inducing elements like ponds or no fences.<br /><br />No, the kind of gardens I'm talking about are the ones that are open to the public and therefore usually interesting and large, or at least a lot more interesting and large than mine. Like the secret garden in town or one up the road which is <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">fortuitously</span> maintained by others and not me, meaning I can <span style="font-style: italic;">really </span>enjoy it.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfRKYNCoICcAzgYRUCBOcwytuyIhYEqsgX41I09yTSUaONyuhjhFKq-bGGOuSx-K3NrKqmcRF6y_m1fDy59p35SKPWQPIslWMteYbJpCpzqqw3r6_zHduNHPMhV4fxJPH54hVOfmoYRWvJ/s1600-h/IMG_6057.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgfRKYNCoICcAzgYRUCBOcwytuyIhYEqsgX41I09yTSUaONyuhjhFKq-bGGOuSx-K3NrKqmcRF6y_m1fDy59p35SKPWQPIslWMteYbJpCpzqqw3r6_zHduNHPMhV4fxJPH54hVOfmoYRWvJ/s400/IMG_6057.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233674633972332162" border="0" /></a><br />This entails my children and me revelling in the stunning views, wide open spaces, immaculate lawns more or less whenever we like (as long as it coincides with opening hours Sunday to Thursday). And because we have membership it feels like we are doing something wholesome and good for free.<br /><br />Heeding the weather forecasts, which were predicting rain for the rest of the week, and being in charge of a very energetic two-year-old who'd spent much of the day before strapped in various seats, we set off to "our" garden up the road.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyNp2w7XNiSjDeXQEe8R3sEV5Wo-gH-rNkN2SdEcP8gMLXDVHH8uzJcsV7ZENabtZMQYTonbp6VU2u6K6uboj_Lq6QvGKOsn4C5AKt76gCUFJc7HjTQlGOw8VQGb22WDwfKsgJzBdfP9-z/s1600-h/IMG_6069.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjyNp2w7XNiSjDeXQEe8R3sEV5Wo-gH-rNkN2SdEcP8gMLXDVHH8uzJcsV7ZENabtZMQYTonbp6VU2u6K6uboj_Lq6QvGKOsn4C5AKt76gCUFJc7HjTQlGOw8VQGb22WDwfKsgJzBdfP9-z/s400/IMG_6069.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233674635933771058" border="0" /></a><br />Oh, it was blissful and I'm at a loss as to why we don't do it more often. There was even a place to buy coffee (bliss - coffee and a beautiful garden!). I think the children found it pretty blissful too; chocolate cake and apple juice, plenty of space for cartwheels and headstands, sheep to gaze at, hills to roll down plus various balls and bats to <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">facilitate</span> lots of games.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiayoN8EwwJYf3F-03kBRdJgn22o7ydf4yv8X_7ti2qMWferpAmIOhl2AZc5D8rB_RC16KJ1hkWc7c9M58hxUQRXwvw1_7lWtyHqeXkfixkUi8xaBAo8nFu4YRcSQ3BiLvBOfRRtw7JnPY4/s1600-h/IMG_6007.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiayoN8EwwJYf3F-03kBRdJgn22o7ydf4yv8X_7ti2qMWferpAmIOhl2AZc5D8rB_RC16KJ1hkWc7c9M58hxUQRXwvw1_7lWtyHqeXkfixkUi8xaBAo8nFu4YRcSQ3BiLvBOfRRtw7JnPY4/s400/IMG_6007.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233674642485577330" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br />There was enough to please all of us from the two-year-old through to the 38-year-old which, in my experience, is pretty <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">unusual and the hallmark, for me, of a great place.</span>Mrs Behttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03692941248911371001noreply@blogger.com5